I have Dutch nationality but am married to a non-Dutch or American woman, how does this work? 

In this case, the person with Dutch/American nationality will become the main applicant and will have to apply for a declaration of law. The spouse who does not have Dutch/American nationality can then apply for a permit for the purpose of family reunification. The applications are then linked. 

Apply for a permit

Register at CuraBon to apply for your permit, what nationality do you have?

Dutch and American license for Curacao

NL or USA

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Permit for Curacao

Another

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